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hello Bitter Single Guy! I love my boyfriend so much. i meet hm 3 months ago, i knew he loved me so much before but i ddnt mind it b4. We communicate each other thru texting. He texted me up once that all persons are changing everyday. (maybe thats his observation what really life is) and i observed it to him b4. i blame my self about that bcoz i did not show my love to him b4. now he is still in me and we still see each other, he told me that maybe, one of these days he will leave me, everytime we see each other he shows me that he loves me but i dont know what really he is feeling to me now. im confused, im crazzy! im doing everything now to let him know that i need him but im afraid that he will leave me. what should i do? please answer me. thanks! ~Where Am I?~
Dear WAI: The Bitter Single Guy realizes that he can be a little overly-detailed at times, but he had a tough time sorting through the txt-speak and rambling in your letter. But the BSG also knows that you're not here for grammar help, but for relationship help so he'll put that aside.
WAI, it sounds to the BSG like you're analyzing and over-analyzing every conversation you have with your Sweet Boyfriend so you can predict the likelihood of him dumping you. Let the BSG help you: If a guy says that he's likely to leave you some day? He's preparing to leave you. Very little analysis necessary here.
The BSG will further guess, however, that your relationship is in that dynamic (some would say hellish) early stage where you're past the giddiness of the first few weeks, but not yet to the doldrums of "you again?". In this hellish stage, anything can happen, so the BSG recommends hanging in there as long as you can. Who knows, maybe you'll get tired first? However, to the degree that it's possible, the BSG recommends chilling out and not trying to analyze every word for hidden intent. That'll wear anyone out.